Read more about how to find a girl here.

But don’t worry — if you want to get a girlfriend in middle school, all you have to do is flirt with her a bit, make her feel special, and ask her out. Getting a girlfriend can seem impossible when you’re single, but don’t give up hope. Everyone feels like this at some point, and you don’t have to be single forever.

How to get a girlfriend: Follow our 10 step guide

#8 Be a good listener. This is essential. Everyone likes having someone to talk to, especially women.

6 Ways To Be The Best Girlfriend He’s Ever Had

Hey I’m Pete – (Peter White) – I run whydoguys.com for women and DiaLteG TM for guys like you. Simply put – I know WOMEN and what it’s going to take to get you the woman of your dreams.

• Whether you’ve been casually dating, exchanging flirty messages, or hanging out only as friends, asking a girl to be your girlfriend can be a nerve-wracking experience.
• It has been tested time and time again and with scientific evidence to boot I can say that it isn’t in the cards for me to find a dream girl much less any girl.
• One huge mistake guys do that kills all attraction is to approach women in an overly safe manner.
• T his rule is here because, and this is coming from my real experiences as a nice guy, we tend to judge couples all too often when we feel like we can not get a girlfriend.
• That is the mindset you yourself need to have.
• And it’s essential when you want to be with a sexy, vibrant or confident girl who knows her value.

The truths on this page will forever change how you see and interact with women. First of all – change your mindset. Stay away from thinking you must get noticed. That will only put you on the opposite side of where you are – you’ll risk becoming a show off or a guy who feels they need to impress a woman to get her to feel attracted to you.

The principles here will help you make sure that when you find the girl of your dreams… you’ll know how to get her and build the relationship you desire. While everyone loves a good mystery man, real women love a guy who shows his good and bad side, with a side of quirky thrown in for good measure. In reality, women want a guy that they can be themselves around and that they can feel safe with, regardless of what they look like. Now I’m not saying you need to go out and tell a girl you’re attracted to her (although that does work when said in the right tone, see our article on how to tell a girl you like her), but instead don’t play it safe. One huge mistake guys do that kills all attraction is to approach women in an overly safe manner.

It’s a lot easier than you think – so stop thinking so much and start DOING what it takes because the answer you seek is right here. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along. Part of this “prep work” is to lay the foundation for a lifetime of success with women.

When you run into her in the hall, make eye contact and say hi to show that you like her. Once you’re ready to start a conversation, ask her what she’s doing next, or make a harmless joke about someone you both know.

They wouldn’t even humor me. Not even for a second. You must be something special then. You have qualities and skills that I just don’t have. You were born with them.

The right way to approach getting a girlfriend is to see yourself as being good enough and then back that up, by making women feel attracted to you as you talk to them. Yes, that can work with some women, but with most attractive women that you meet, their dream is to be able to meet a guy who makes them feel like they need to live up to his expectations. They meet an attractive woman, they start to fall in love with her right away and they really want to get to be her boyfriend. Yet, for the most part when you meet a woman, if you want her to be your girlfriend, then get to a first kiss, have sex with her, start dating and you’ll naturally get into a relationship with her. Yet, if you just talk to women in a friendly neutral type of way and try to have serious conversations all the time, then you’re not going to be making most of the women that you meet feel a spark for you.