Read more about signs she likes you here.

They tend to assume that a guy who likes their post is actually liking them and that’s why lots of your female friends might not like your updates that often. Assuming that a girl either isn’t into you sexually, or is but doesn’t want to broadcast it, or just doesn’t know you that well, then she usually won’t like your posts even if she follows them closely.

I’ll answer questions if any guy wants more help or information when trying to decide if a girl likes you (but not necessarily reply to people who just leave general comments). There just might be a bit of a wait if I get flooded with questions when I’m busy doing other things.

If that happens, there’s a damn good chance that she likes you so much that she’s freezing up and doesn’t know what to do. Of course she might actually hate you but realistically unless you’re genuinely an unlikeable asshole that’s probably not the case. Also girls tend to like and trust guys that their friends vouch for so if you have mutual friends there’s no real reason for her to actively dislike you. This one is tried and true but it’s still worth mentioning. If a girl goes out of her way to let you know that she thinks you’re funny then that’s a massive indicator of her interest.

Signal #18 – She will halt conversing with her friends to talk with you

Every girl has a different sense of style, and not all girls will try to dress as aforementioned when they like somebody. However, if you notice that the girl you’re wondering about dresses a little more nicely around you, it could be a sign that she wants to impress you.

In the same chapter, Hussey notes that most men are pretty clueless at picking up body language. As such, he tells women that flashing a guy a quick glance across the room isn’t enough, because, for all he knows, she might just be looking for the bathroom or scanning the room. He advises women to give two looks, one in which she locks eyes with him for a half-second, then looks away, and then a second look in which she locks eyes again and smiles. Regardless of whether or not she’s read the book, when a woman does this at a party or in a bar, it’s almost certainly a sign that she wants you to come talk to her.

• If she likes you, there’s no doubt she’ll have spent parts of her Sunday brunches and movie nights with the girls filling them in on all the deets about you.
• Her friends can give you clues on whether she likes you or not.
• A girl is really, really into you if she makes drastic changes in her appearance just to please you.
• On the other hand, when a girl blows up your phone, texts you consistently and makes an effort to continue a conversation, she definitely likes you.
• The moment that she allows you to come closer, then you can know for sure that there is something going on.

Signal #9 – She loves the touchy-feely stuff

When a guy is talking to a girl that he likes, he would probably start sweating or struggling with words. It is different with girls. When a girl is talking to a guy that she likes, her voice becomes a little different. You will notice that her pitch will be a little higher. She might sound affectionate and maybe a little bit flirty.

If the other girls in your math class are decked out in their go-to Nike shorts and oversized T-shirts, but she’s rocking cute high-waisted shorts or a sun dress to that 8 a.m. lecture, it may be a sign she likes you.

And don’t forget to share with your friends too, they may find it helpful. When you’re getting to know a girl, it’s natural that she would introduce you to her friends. But if she seems to be pushing you to be interested in a friend of hers, you can bet she’s not that interested in you.

This is basic psychology. If a girl talks to you a lot about her day, then it is likely that she wants you to know more about her. She wants to let you in her life and be a part of it. She wants to share her thoughts and feelings because you’re important to her.

(You might also thank her, because this can be a great way to meet new, qualified people.) Girls who are interested in you are going to want to keep you for themselves, not pass you off to her single girlfriends. Remain honest and open, both to her feelings and to the possibilities. This is a huge red flag. Mentioning a guy she’s interested in, or a guy she’s dating, no matter how casually, communicates that she probably doesn’t think of you romantically.

I’m perfectly happy where I am now though. So give it s go if you want to, but if it doesn’t work out with your best friend, don’t worry. If it turns out she’s not the one, you’ll find the perfect girl for you some day. So, in answer to your question, you should ‘conclude’ that you’re making a big mistake and need to change your attitude.