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#8 Be a good listener. This is essential. Everyone likes having someone to talk to, especially women.

They wouldn’t even humor me. Not even for a second. You must be something special then. You have qualities and skills that I just don’t have. You were born with them.

So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’. How do you know if you’re doing this or not?

You’ll naturally become choosier, by learning what it is you truly desire in a woman. Women want men who feel like they are the choosers — men who select the women they want in their life.

• Women want to feel like you’re choosing to be with them, not that you’re desperately seeking a relationship and can’t live without a girlfriend.
• Once you’re ready to start a conversation, ask her what she’s doing next, or make a harmless joke about someone you both know.
• Simply put – I know WOMEN and what it’s going to take to get you the woman of your dreams.

What you may have noticed is that some guys, when they meet women, are able to start talking to them and sparks fly immediately between themselves and the woman. He meets women, feel sexually attracted to them and doesn’t say or do anything during the interaction to make the woman feel sexually attracted and turned on by him.

Women love to feel special, no doubt. So if you are talking with a girl and you can sense, see and feel she is losing interest in you, then you are about to be rejected. Keep it light and casual when you start dating a girl. Coming on too strong with gifts, poems and passionate declarations of love can overwhelm her and scare her away. Let your relationship develop gradually, finding common interests and spending more time together, while keeping your own friends and maintaining your own life.

The principles here will help you make sure that when you find the girl of your dreams… you’ll know how to get her and build the relationship you desire. While everyone loves a good mystery man, real women love a guy who shows his good and bad side, with a side of quirky thrown in for good measure. In reality, women want a guy that they can be themselves around and that they can feel safe with, regardless of what they look like. Now I’m not saying you need to go out and tell a girl you’re attracted to her (although that does work when said in the right tone, see our article on how to tell a girl you like her), but instead don’t play it safe. One huge mistake guys do that kills all attraction is to approach women in an overly safe manner.

But don’t worry — if you want to get a girlfriend in middle school, all you have to do is flirt with her a bit, make her feel special, and ask her out. Getting a girlfriend can seem impossible when you’re single, but don’t give up hope. Everyone feels like this at some point, and you don’t have to be single forever.

The truths on this page will forever change how you see and interact with women. First of all – change your mindset. Stay away from thinking you must get noticed. That will only put you on the opposite side of where you are – you’ll risk becoming a show off or a guy who feels they need to impress a woman to get her to feel attracted to you.

Women want to feel like you’re choosing to be with them, not that you’re desperately seeking a relationship and can’t live without a girlfriend. To ask a girl to be your girlfriend, wait for the chance to talk to her alone in person. Start with some light conversation, like asking her how her day has been, to put her at ease. After some chatting, you might mention how well you get along.